We as parents need to be in our children lives every step of way. Their teen years are their most critical years and if we are not in their lives at that time then they will begin to look for love in all the wrong place. Girls may turn to men and boys may turn to drugs. Go to your children school and interact with their teachers because if they see that you don't care then they may not care about your chilren either. Even though they have taken prayer out of school does not mena you need to take prayer out of your home.