If you have times when you think that you are the only one that has problems. Uh oh that is really selfish of you . Start to think about why do you look a certain why does my heart allow me to love someone that is never going to be there. Like when someone keeps you down out of spite, say to yourself you are stronger and you will be alright. Never allow yourself to think that you cant make it . Stand your ground, wisen up and listen . Keep yourself together and never let anyone tell you different.